special spot with my special girl

Abs is growing up.  She’s a whopping 8 years old and is my adventurous child.  A special date with her, I have found, is best when it includes two things:  moving and nature.  So…we set out on a little hike to a special spot and I captured some keeper photos.

I love my little weasel!

fall fun with the kids

Today was the perfect, crisp, fall afternoon.  Before naps we had to get out and do a little neighborhood walk to collect leaves.  D loves to do this and even Azariyah got into the action.

Here are some photos of our walk, D and Abbie doing a craft with the leaves, and Azariyah getting into mischief.

introducing….chopsticks

Here are some shots of Abbie’s new rodent.

Chopsticks is a Chinese dwarf hamster.  I mentioned in an earlier post that she is a good digger.  That remains to be true…but that’s not all.  After 3 nights of silence from Abbie’s room, Chopsticks broke the routine and decided to learn the art of wheel running!  We couldn’t be happier.

so long fluff…hello chopsticks

While Matt and I were enjoying an amazing dinner at our favorite restaurant, I received a disheartening text message.  It was from my friend Allyson, who was kind enough to watch our kids while we enjoyed an overnight getaway in the city.  The text read:

Sorry to interrupt…Fluff is dead and Ab is very sad.

Fluff is…well, was Abbie’s beloved winter dwarf hamster.  We got him July 4th – the day we had to let Spot, our super speedy-only after one thing in life turtle, go back into the wild.  Fluff was a great first hamster for my daughter.  He was very affectionate as far as rodents go and despite that he looked like a round puff ball with legs, he faithfully ran on his wheel all night, every night.  I can attest to that personally.

So…before our desserts arrived, I snuck away from our table for two to give Abbie a call.  I could tell she had been crying but she seemed on the up and up.  Matt called her after dinner and again, she seemed to be doing pretty well.  Knowing that we were going to get a new hamster seemed to lessen the blow of fluff’s death.

Matt and I arrived home and we all gathered outside under the rainy sky to bury Fluff and to thank God for his short but memorable life.  We all had our roles to play.  Matt was the gravedigger.  Stephen’s compassionate heart was displayed when he went searching for flowers for us to put on Fluff’s grave.  Allyson held the umbrella over Abigail’s head, as she leaned against me crying.  Azariyah went from Matt to Allyson to me, wiggling around in her pink puffy coat.  As for me, I found myself unexpectedly giving a eulogy type message, reminding all of us how death – even for a winter dwarf hamster, is sobering.  It makes us think about where we stand with Jesus.

It was the first pet funeral  that we experienced as a family.  I know it won’t be the last because we have a cat and as of today, we have a new hamster:  Chopsticks.  Chopsticks is appropriately named because she is a Chinese dwarf hamster.  She’s quite cute with her mouse-like ears and she is an excellent digger!

So long Fluff….you will be missed!

a great illustration for trust

Continuing on this road of what “trust” looks like, I found a gem when I discovered this link from one of John Piper’s tweets.  I love and appreciate how he has created a visual image for me to picture and comprehend.  Hope it encourages others out there!

Your daddy is standing in a swimming pool out a little bit from the edge. You are, let’s say, three years old and standing on the edge of the pool. Daddy holds out his arms to you and says, “Jump, I’ll catch you. I promise.” Now, how do you make your daddy look good at that moment? Answer: trust him and jump. Have faith in him and jump. That makes him look strong and wise and loving. But if you won’t jump, if you shake your head and run away from the edge, you make your daddy look bad. It looks like you are saying, “he can’t catch me” or “he won’t catch me” or “it’s not a good idea to do what he tells me to do.” And all three of those make your dad look bad.

But you don’t want to make God look bad. So you trust him. Then you make him look good–which he really is. And that is what we mean when we say, “Faith glorifies God” or “Faith gives God glory.” It makes him look as good as he really is. So trusting God is really important.

And the harder it seems for him to fulfill his promise, the better he looks when you trust him. Suppose that you are at the deep end of a pool by the diving board. You are four years old and can’t swim, and your daddy is at the other end of the pool. Suddenly a big, mean dog crawls under the fence and shows his teeth and growls at you and starts coming toward you to bite you. You crawl up on the diving board and walk toward the end to get away from him. The dog puts his front paws up on the diving board. Just then, your daddy sees what’s happening and calls out, “Johnny, jump in the water. I’ll get you.”

Now, you have never jumped from one meter high and you can’t swim and your daddy is not underneath you and this water is way over your head. How do you make your daddy look good in that moment? You jump. And almost as soon as you hit the water, you feel his hands under your arms and he treads water holding you safely while someone chases the dog away. Then he takes you to the side of the pool.

We give glory to God when we trust him to do what he has promised to do–especially when all human possibilities are exhausted. Faith glorifies God. That is why God planned for faith to be the way we are justified.